Monday, October 28, 2013

On getting the paper

Though writing this blog a bit later but I am quite sure the emotions of the blog and thoughts of the moments will not be lost for a long time....

I still remember when I saw the paper. It was a Wednesday or Thrusday in Mid August. I had just come from work. For some reason which I do not remember now, we were not expecting to see the the paper come so early. Rose had already gone to TX, and I had already got rid of Nimit (the menace). The house was all to myself. I was in process of vacating the house in a week or so and then for last 2-3 weeks stay at Castaic with Maa and Daddy. I think they had not arrived. And there was a sort of happiness all around. AND YES HOW CAN I FORGET I JUST HAD ENDED BUYING THE HOUSE.

So in a word there was all happiness all around Planning for marraige, parents are coming to visit and I will be staying few more days in the hovel before moving to better things.

So here I come from work tired and somehow getting myself removed from the work drama, knowing it is going to be a past soon. But still with the horrible 3 months, something worrysome as I still needed the EAD card to become really free.

Here I come to slightly clean house, especially as Tony had fianlly removed his junk.

I do not remember why did I even go to open the mail. And with the fall coolness when I opened the letter to see a USCIS letter, the first reaction to me was there was someother request. Note a week earlier we got or had to apply to say that we had moved to Dallas.

So instead of another letter from USCIS and with the long drawn summer issue of Work trouble and getting 2-3 months of preparing the paperwork, I with trepidation opened the letter. And there in that was my green card.

I still remember how happy I was to get it. Fianlly free from the stress of what happns if I loose job. Finally free after all my mess with USCIS - the F1 rejection and H1B issue then the job loss before getting married.

It was a great and happy day. And with other things falling in place it all was icing on the top.

THough I still was un-prepared for the black day that was to come, I was seeing the good days that lay ahead. Which today when I think about now, DID SURELY MATERIALISE.

Old Posts of time when we almost had the third one

Shantanu Shukla 
1/12/10
to Rose
How do you think about a blog on Baccha/Bacchi(if it is girl)

I was thinking of these names for the blog

BacchaBacchaBaccha (Kid, Kid, Kid!!! as the kid has brought so much of fun and more excitement to our lives)

BapMaaAurrrrrrBaccha ( Father Mother Andddddd Bachha - about our unmarried state )

AngraziBacha ( English Baccha.. trying to capture the multi-cultural aspect of Baccha)

And by the way I am still looking out for the original couple blog. A blog sparted in that long distant past when two inter-racial couples meet. t was more meeting of two oceans. And like long past story it has been lost and has become a past just like our old lives of dating. When we were fresh with our excitment disaapointment of meeting. Like meeting of two oceans withs different colors and seperate currents. Those old days of beach time and fun and coddling and figths.

But best of it... for me atleast .. Being away from being flung around the house like a doll..... And best of all can go to sleep earlier.. Able to go to sleep at 11. It is a dream coming true for me already... I am already starting loving the kid... Not even thinking of being forced to be up becos the other person still wants more fun....  :-)

But more on practical side I really think yesterday the kid and job is finally taking toll on you... And I am really happy about it in a double positive sense.. :-)

Being ADHD another thing... before it gets lost in our memories... Lets finish the last portion of that beautiful long trip of just two of us. Becos soon everything will be decided by him or her.


Shantanu
Shantanu Shukla 
1/12/10
to Rose
The third name for blog I was thinking was


AngraziBachaI ( English Baccha + I.. trying to capture the multi-cultural aspect of Baccha and combining Baccha and Bacchi so BacchaI)

And also about having the voice memo I think lets go for a small car ride to record it.
Rose Verzyl 
1/12/10
to me
Oh honey, your email really touched me. Today while I was driving I was thinking of how lucky I am to have you in my life & how much I feel that you care for me...it is really quite beautiful. I love you with all of my heart & can't wait to see you everynight.

Yeah, and after reading your first paragraph, I think the blog was called meeting of 2 (no spaces or maybe underscores between the words) or two spelled out.

Totally, I like the BacchaBaccha!, BacchaBacchi!, meeting of 2 plus or with baccha, baccha of 2 oceans, or all about baccha.

With my fav being meeting of two plus baccha, or baccha of 2 oceans

I'm so glad you are getting excited. I think it's even going to be better than I imagined & of course better than I could plan. It reminds me of the saying that when you plan god laughs :) that's  how I think we've both been feeling lately....but somehow I feel that we are going to be just fine

With all my love,
Rose

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